It hurts when family members treat us like that especially. I don't have that 'happy ending' to tell at least not at the moment; I just like the cold hard reality and I do my best to handle it as it comes. I'm not going to pretend like I climbed the insurmountable iceberg and I'm living my 'greatest life' haha. Keep living your life OP and forget those who belittle you but if they come around be willing to forgive.