“You don’t stutter”

“You don’t stutter” I’m not sure if anyone has experienced this but I was telling someone I have a stutter (that particular conversation I didn’t stutter) and they were like “ohh stop saying u have a stutter/speech impediment, you didn’t stutter a single time you were talking “ and I had said I was using my techniques, they had said that the problem with this generation is that we’re self deprecating and etc but I literally do stutter? They said I shouldn’t put labels on myself and such and it’s very annoying because my stutter is apart of me. Not all stutters are depressed lowlifes losers.