It didn’t not come as offensive at all, no worries. It does not require that much time as you think. - Going to gym? you can go 2-3 times a week. - Dress decent? its not something that takes more time than not caring with what you wear. - Eat healthy? you still eat, just be careful what you eat. - Stay fresh? I mean its a decent thing to do. Doesn’t take more time. - Reading and learning interesting stuff? Well, here you don’t need to read and learn everything in 1 month. You can give 5-6 hours a week for these activities. And 5-6 hours a week is not much. And once you learn some nice things, you will want to find out more, so it will not feel like a chore. Or at least this is how i feel it.