I’m 24F and I also stutter and I’m a virgin. There’s a lot of pressure in society involving relationships and sex (especially in this day and age), so I 100% understand where you’re coming from. As women we already feel the pressure to be perfect and desirable, and then you throw a stutter on top of it and it’s a very vulnerable insecurity. The best advice I received was needing to love myself before I love anyone else. You sound just like me a few years ago. There’s already so much pressure, don’t put even more on yourself. I hope this helped at least a little bit?