Actually I'm a stutterer but that's not me. Rule 1 is to love and respect yourself I got so many people laughing at me when I speak especially in school but I never felt offended or get harmed because deep inside I know that I AM A BETTER PERSON than that worthless idiot who is laughing at me. Because In my life most of the good and respectable people have never even mentioned stuttering in my presence. Yeah it can be painful because maybe you can't look cool when you're speaking, and It's hard for you to win a Controversy or a discussion because people can speak faster than you but that has never been an obstacle for me. I'm the leading person in my group and all of them are cool and smart guys and all of them loved me and respected me many girls liked me in my life and that is because my arrogance, it has always kept me up, Arrogance is not a good thing but we should have it, Without arrogance and self confidence your problem will look much much larger for you and for the people.