I appreciate this and hoped you would weigh in. While doom scrolling and trying to convince myself that kiddo didn't suffer an anoxic brain injury during tonsil surgery a few months ago, I read a number of your posts. (Yes, I've decided that I'm part of the problem, but it was a night and day change at the age of 6.) They were enormously helpful. The research links have me thinking this may be tied to adhd, which kiddo has demonstrated signs of, but I have in spades.