The meaning lost in translation? You said you have no respect for people who can't just pretend to be ok all the time. I'm not nitpicking anything, that's pretty clearly what you said. You're the one who wandered into a sub and found it unbearable yet decided to stick around to insult people and treat them "less than." But then your fiance also finds you unbearable, you'd think he'd leave but here we are. I guess we don't kink shame 🤷🏼‍♀️