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Love what you said at the end; I´ll always be a stutterer, but I don´t have a stutter. Today I was reflecting about some ideas and a thought come out; maybe every person have a tendency to block. Maybe everyone is a stutterer at some degree. (I know it sound crazy and maybe offensive for those of us who struggle all our life dealing with the shame and guilt of being a long life stuttering. But I do not intend to minimize the situation. Just making a reflextion that easily could be wrong) The difference may be that we kind of obssesed with controling our speaking perfomance that we got stuck on a mental loop, anxiety vicious circle that we can´t get out. ¿Why do we obssesed? I don´t know. That answer is personal. Every atempt to exit make´s the loop stronger. Everytime we speak, we got into that mental state and re-enforced the patron that leads to blocking. Some people achieve fluency because they manage to get out of the loop. Probably they don´t even know how they did it. But If I can get in the loop, I can get out. So the other way. That is why we always be a stutterer. There will always be a tendency to hold back when we sense some kind of danger.