Yes, i hate when people do that also. I think they are trying to be helpful but they lack the awareness of how they come across. They don't understand how important fluency is in today's society and not having can and will hold you back; both professionally and socially. Some days, i really hate talking. Even though my fluency is much better than it used to be, when i have a bad day it's the most frustrating feeling in the world. Not being able to communicate verbally with the idea i have.