Additionally: * **In my opinion**, PWS may not understand that fearing the desire of fluency could lead to more unsafety and more pain. For example, we may push away, run away from, suppress, despirately try to change, control, deny, disown, reject and misunderstand desiring fluency in of itself. This may then lead us to changing the desires of our listeners as well * **Conclusion: in my opinion**, if we misunderstand our desire for fluency within ourselves, then we likely don't understand how to use this desire to benefit in our life. In my opinion, if we refuse to accept to speak immediately when we have the urge or desire to say a word, then this will likely effectively totally bulldoze the reality of inability to execute speech movements. We may then respond negatively to desiring fluency itself. I argue when people who stutter (PWS) fear the desire of fluency, they can fall into any of the unhealthy responses or coping mechanisms * I have been thinking a lot about improving stuttering, and I mean I spent a lot of time finding different [strategies](https://www.reddit.com/user/Little_Acanthaceae87/submitted/). But, as you have experienced yourself, other people who stutter may not fully understand these tips or strategies, in the sense of how it affects their own stuttering, and how to internally change the perceptions/attitudes that come with it to reap the benefits of it