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I stutter. I’ve also developed various ways to cope with. I still don’t wanna do public speaking and such. Now with Ashwagandha + L-Theanine (discovered last year), my stutter has considerably improved. But I still stutter when I don’t communicate with people other than my own partner for more than a week. I’m not rich. I’m now doing relatively okay but I was never rich to start with. And my looks are probably 6, a 7 on a good day. I’d learned how to dress different styles, and how to take care of myself. I’m now 36. I’ve had my heart broken numerous times, not because of my stutter but as a normal experience for any human being. I have had a lot of relationships since I was 18. I’ve had a lot of flings, ONS and FWBs too. Granted, most of them didn’t happen by approaching a random girl in a club/bar and then flirting (because I’d stutter a lot when I approach strangers like that). All my ONS, flings and FWBs started out as friends or acquaintances. I’d dated a VP of Sales at a widely known international hotel chain, several lawyers, creatives, and others from all sorts of backgrounds. I’d dated accomplished girls, and those still finding their passion and path in life. I’m now dating a drop dead gorgeous 10/10 girl. She’s in aviation industry, and have a long frigging line of guys waiting to have a chance with her. Bottom line is: no mate, you won’t die alone. And you’ll definitely meet a lot of girls. Stutter is something we can’t cure but we can manage that. We can find ways to cope. We can also improve other areas of our lives. We can learn how to build emotional rapport and connections. We can live a life that will have stories to tell. We can learn how to look good. We can learn how to take care of ourselves. You’ve got this, brother. As one man to another who have stuttering issue, I know what you’re going through. I also know that you’re gonna come out on top.