>Many girls liked me, but not the ones that I liked  This seems pretty obvious... Date some girls that like you. Quit putting the pussy on a pedestal. >Amount of hard work I put is actually insane. WTF does this mean? This, paired with your opening paragraph sounds creepy AF. You want to put in hard work? Work on yourself. Education, hobbies, health. Whatever works for you. But focus on self improvement / growth.