How do you live with the insecurity

How do you live with the insecurity Hi I \[29M\] have decent stutter and I am now at an age where I am looking for a partner and settle down. But I just can't get over this insecurity that firstly no one will actually want me, anyone who did will just be settling for me as a second/third choice or chose to be with me did not do it because of me but some other ulterior motive. And secondly even if I did find someone who liked me despite my stutter, they will always be embarrassed by me, will be embarrassed to introduce me to their friends and eventually will end up disappointed in me and my shortcoming in day-to-day activities because of the stutter. Does anyone also face this? How did you get over it?