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Train your brain to give zero fucks about your stutter. Easier said than done, i know. Therefore you should take action - you can overcome the fear of stuttering ONLY by actually putting yourself in the feared situations over and over Here's my recommendation on how to overcome the fear/stigma around stuttering (copied from my response to another thread): I recommend voluntarily stuttering. No need to disclose your stutter, unless you r r r really want to. T t t t talk in a slow/comfortable pace, project your voice, l-l-l-lightly but distinctly stutter in few words per sentence, and most importantly 'maintain eye contact'! Practice with store employees, like ask them where the baby d-d-d-diapers are, or if they have any green b-b-b-bananas. If you block, just take a pause and try to voluntarily stutter through the word you blocked on. Challenge yourself to hold the conversion for at least a minute, but no biggie if you cannot. Read above paragraph 3 more times, and try to apply it for the next 4 weeks. Taking real action is the most important piece of this puzzle. For a month or so, id spend few hours every week in various stores and chat with the employees or servers, and stutter my heart away. You'd be surprised how many people patiently listen to you and do their utmost to help you out once they realize you've speech impediment. Most stutterers are too afraid of stuttering and busy hiding it that they incorrectly assume other people are mocking them. So MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT through the worst of stuttering. Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to try to stutter as much as you can, and take as much judgement from others as you can. I started enjoying the process at some point, and practically started initiating conversations with strangers on the street. I'd elongate my stutter even more to see how much discomfort i can handle. Once you start becoming immmune to your stuttering, you start thriving in uncomfortable situations, and sometimes even seeking them out In this journey, ive stuttered voluntarily in meetings and large presentations in front of large (100+) audience, and in interviews. I try to stutter especially saying my name, because thats where i used to fear messing up the most. Because im so confident now, ive not been mocked by anyone lately. Ive built up enough thick skin to deal with mockery anyways, so it doesn't bother me as much as it used to. So The bottom line is: Once you're confident and self assured, nobody will dare mock you on your face. Even if they do, you simply learn to give zero fucks by following the approach i described qbove, and preserve your inner zen.