The first time I asked a girl out it took me an hour to do it. She knew I was going to ask her out. It’s just I was so nervous and scared that I small talked for an hour. The best first date for people like us I think is a concert. Find out what kind of music she’s into and see if there’s a small indie band near you. The beauty about concerts is the conversations can be short and you are not the main attraction in the date. It’s just having a good time. Just keep in mind that she wouldn’t agree to go on a date if there wasn’t some initial attraction. You got this buddy.