Nowadays I just position myself as a disabled person, with problem speaking. I stopped comparing myself with all the able speakers and I gotta say, I become more kind to myself acknowledging I am disabled(with absolutely no cure or treatment ) and the false hope from intermittent fluency stops arising. Knowing my position better in this world makes me live life clearer, knowing what to make a fuss about and which to let go. Ps: my stutter is biological