>But how do you flirt though? Brother I'm also 21 and figuring all this shit out and honestly there's no answer to this. It's just placing yourself around people who do flirt, observing, and hoping some of them choose to flirt with you. I'm really convinced it's only something you can learn from experience. I'm slowly starting to figure things out but I'm still relatively clueless. You could argue I've been in a somewhat romantic situation with one person and I literally asked her to explain to me how she was flirting after she straight up told me she had been doing it all night.