Hmm so does wanting and actively searching for ways to stutter less mean I don't accept my stutter. Because when someone says "accept the way things are", I think they mean that you should just be okay with your lot in life. If you have condition that has no known cure, you should focus on coping with it and living with it. That's what comes to mind when I conceptualize acceptance. But then does acceptance mean giving up on finding a better life. Does it mean you should give up on searching for a cure or solution when things seem impossible? I like the last point of the graphic you shared.