Valid points you make. Good to hear your perspective on this. Honestly speaking, if anybody feels shame/guilt then that's their own issue to deal with. We're responsible for our own actions only. When we're met with challenges there's 2 things you can do: take action or feel victimised because it's happened. Most opt for the latter. I know PWS who do nothing to change but complain all the time about their difficulties. All I've done is share my perspective. To let people know it's possible. Gotta have that burning desire to succeed and it's up to the individual to work hard for it. I know that because I've worked incredibly hard to get to where I am.