Yes to the name I should hope you don’t mind at least introducing yourself! But no to the phone number/payment info. We use telegram but there are other popular options too for contact. The payment goes through PayPal/Cashapp/whatever method you agree. It takes the pressure off I guess and definitely helped me out, I got more confident speaking to strangers, on video calls, leaving voice notes and having conversations go in unexpected directions without pre-planning. My friend doesn’t correct me, or try to finish my words. I can’t tell you how much it helped.