Send her my way and I’ll be mother bear for you. Gah. I’m totally serious, btw. I spend so much time educating people trying to raise awareness and create allies. If you want to say something to her, I suggest being vulnerable and straightforward. “It hurts my feelings when you say that because I feel like (you don’t understand me ), (you don’t understand how much I struggle) (how hard it is for me). You can always print material from the websites- Stuttering Foundation or National Stuttering Association