My experience with women has been that if I don't personally care or let it severely affect me, they won't care either. No woman will like a crybaby, nor one that goes off the other extreme end and never shows any vulnerability as it visibly affects him. What's even more important, something women deeply respect, is showing it doesn't affect you enough to keep you from doing the shit you're supposed to be doing. Do not disregard your duty. It's better to grind your teeth and stutter your entire way through it than not go through it at all. The other might be fluent, but they're sure as hell imperfect in other areas. That's why I tend to have a problem even with people here sometimes who state to be dating someone and are so thankful to be "tolerated" by their partner. Nope. You're not perfect either, and I'm tolerating your imperfections. How about we make no mention of what we tolerate unless it's something we need to improve on? I refuse for someone to choose me despite my stutter. If you feel like you're settling for me in any way, I wish you the best of luck with future dating. I have a moderate stutter. I'm 26. I have a count of around 40 and have had 2 serious relationships, the second ongoing. Stuttering doesn't even factor in much once you get the hang of it. If you struggle to have any success at all, you're 100% scapegoating your stutter and neglecting your personal development because you view your fate to be deterministic and your actionable contribution unimportant.