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Hey man. I just graduated college, and totally understand your anxiety about moving in to college with a stutter. That was me four years ago - and I can definitely say that you will change, whether you like it or not, as a person during these next four years. The most important thing I learned is that change is inevitable. As much as you want to remain in your comfortable bubble, with your hometown friends and favorite pizza place, you're going to need to branch out and experience new things. The number one thing I can recommend to you is to put yourself in the uncomfortable situations that you would normally avoid. For example, college was the time that I began to open up about my stuttering to friends, confided in them, and even joked around about it from time to time. On top of that, I'd also recommend joining clubs, trying out for a sports team, or even joining a fraternity to make new friends and build those valuable connections. You'd be amazed by how many people accept you if you accept yourself. The final thing - DON'T GIVE UP. If you fail, know that it's not because of your stutter. If you are comfortable with your stutter, those who you interact with will be comfortable with you as well. I tried to join a fraternity for four semesters and got rejected every single time until I found a group of guys who accepted me for me. It was the best decision I made in college and the friendships as well as connections I made were truly invaluable. PM me if you want to talk any further. Good luck man - you got this!