I feel like the "cute if a guy stuttered" is just a romanticization of stuttering and how that is typically portrayed as a cute quirk or something. Maybe that's not the case, but I really hate the "quirkiness" of my disability. You don't see that used with physical disabilities. It also might just be "cute" for the first couple of dates and then they might get frustrated. Again, I could be wrong, but it's sad we have to worry about that to begin with.