I agree with most of what you said. I hate those people who play too much the victim and do absolutely nothing with their situation. If you stutter and you are angry/ashamed about it, you should do something right now. If you don't want to, it's totally ok, but you have to accept the fact that you will stutter for the rest of your life, and so stop playing the victim. I know that stuttering isn't affecting my life that much. I literally stopped stuttering for like 2 years, and my life remained absolutely the same ( for some parts it was even worse) and this made me realize that my stutter, while yes it's a disability, counts less than 20% on my personality and relationships. But I am still ashamed of it, and so I am trying my best to finally overcome it, along with others self improvements