People don’t pay as much attention to it as you! If they look surprised when u speak for the first time it’s 9/10 because they don’t know how to react and are a bit confused and don’t want to offend you. If you tell them about it they’ll feel so much more comfortable and will take you seriously and treat you as a the person you deserve to be treated as. Focus on being the best person you can be and it will all be okay :)