It really doesn’t take too long. I’d text for a day or two and see how receptive she is. If we keep the texting going then after a few days we’d meet up. I’ve learned from experience that it’s always best to do an activity together. Playing pool, shooting darts, putt putt, or an arcade. Anything to keep you out of your own head. I actually met up with a girl yesterday. My roommate and a friend were going to play disc golf so I asked if she wanted to join. There was very little pressure since we weren’t sitting across from each other playing 21 questions. It went great and she said the stutter didn’t bother her at all. I told her I get frustrated with it sometimes and that was that.