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I’m 30 and I still stutter. It’s much much much better than it was when I was 15 and in school. Kids are dicks which causes more anxiety which in turn can make stuttering worse. Back in school I always worked out something with my teachers to not read out loud or do oral tests. Not saying that is advised, but that kept my anxiety down and let me focus on my grades. From what I’ve learned about myself is that confidence is the best weapon. I started working out and feeling good about myself back in the day and it really improved my stutter. I still have it now and it still sucks, but I’ve learned to live with it and know how to get through sentences and situations. I was an audio engineer talking over loudspeakers and to big time artists which can be nerve racking. Now I’m a flooring salesman due Covid, so I’m talking and doing sales pitches everyday. Just talk with friends and family as much as you can. Sing in the car since it’s very difficult to stutter when you sing. Boost your confidence anyway you can: working out, new clothes or shoes, learn an instrument, get a new haircut. Feeling like you’re the strongest/coolest man in the room helps! I used to avoid situations like ordering at drive thrus, and now I do it all of the time. Every stutterer has their own style of stuttering and habits they pick up from pushing through. Try to find something that works for you. I used to squint my eye and make faces, but I didn’t like how that made me look in front of people. I figured out other ways: tapping my foot, moving my thumb against my index finger, swaying a little bit, just normal things where I wouldn’t feel like the spotlight is on me. There’s still days I can’t say my name well but usually that’s when I’m staring to feel sick or fatigued. In short it may not go away but it will definitely get better. Confidence my friend.