Fuck this shit man, I know it's rough but this is a terrible way to look at it. I have a stutter, I also have a sexy girlfriend, a good job that I worked hard for and a strong social life. You might have some very real circumstances that affect your life, we've all been there when stuttering has held us back a little or pulled us down, but it's how you get up and get back at it that makes you who you are. The same can be said for black people, women or any other group that is a minority or suffers from a disability, or in fact, basically anyone can say this, I've heard rich white people say it's not fair because they are judged for their social status and not who they are. Stand tall, be proud of who you are and grab life by the balls.