Dude. Ive had people talk to me in that high pitched "aww he's shy" kind of voice. That does make me think I'm retarded. And if charisma were that easy how come there are sooooo many people like me coming to this sub? Am i confident. Sure. I can go up to people talk make conversation no problem. But is it "good" conversation? Absolutely not. How can I be chairsmatic if I'm not good enough. I'm just being absolutely logical here.