Sticks and stones...and then there's guns.  Don't get ahead of yourself.  There is a funny meme where a snake bites a man and rather than focusing on getting rid of the venom they run after the snake yelling at it telling it why it shouldn't have bit them. Before its too late I hope you realize that you can't control other people's mental reality and have no idea what's in there, you can only control yours.  And there is another meme that is fitting, a picture of a wolf jumping off the cliff angrily chasing a bird and the meme says "you can't take back what you do in anger."