i totally agree with you. my gran is pretty religious and my parents say they are but dont go to church etc. ive always liked to question it but now that im older, i see it as a form of rule book, a way to keep people in check. 'be good and you will receive good' and all that stuff. my main reason for not believing is down to the amount of suffering in the world. why would an all powering, all loving god make us suffer everyday of life. why is there war, poverty, famine. it just doesnt make sense to me i do like the idea of reincarnation though. i like to think that maybe my next life will be a good one since this current one is awful