Sorry for the late reply. Hopefully it works out for you. You just gotta be honest and mature about it all. You're turning into your own person, show her that. You know you're intelligent, that's all that matters, you have a great way of communicating, and deserve much more respect. Ask for that respect politely. You're stutter doesn't define you anyway, it's just a very small part of you. Keep being you, and try speech therapy anyway, it's no harm to keep trying at it.! Good luck! :)