Im in sort of the same situation, but i dont think women care as much as you make it to be in this post. Ive been working out a lot in the past 6 months and this really makes a difference, i think more than my stuttering. On the other side ive heard of several girls that though my stuttering was "kind of weird" and didnt want to date me for it. It hits pretty hard i admit. But we all have some problems i guess, stuttering isnt the worst.