commentr/StutterOctober 15, 2024

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It’s completely okay to give off “virgin vibes.” In fact, it’s not a bad thing at all. It just means you’re holding onto your values and moving at your own pace, which is something to be proud of. The fact that this guy focused on that shows he probably wasn’t looking for the kind of meaningful connection you’re after. If he’s dated 50 women, it’s likely he was more interested in something casual or purely physical, and that’s not a reflection of you—it’s just that you two had different expectations. There’s nothing wrong with not having much experience; it just means you’re more selective and intentional about who you want to share those moments with. My wife was actually a virgin when we got married, and she was 25. I never saw that as a negative—in fact, to me, it showed she was someone who values herself and what she’s looking for. Virgin vibes don’t mean anything bad; in my opinion, they’re more like “wife material vibes.” Someone who truly cares about you will appreciate that you’re being true to yourself and won’t judge you for your experience or lack thereof. Keep being you, and the right person will value your honesty, patience, and the way you approach relationships.

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Social & Relationships

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Dating & Romance