Ok so you're having girls flake on you. It could be that your interactions with them aren't compelling enough or not creating much sexual attraction or you're not escalating properly. So basically you need to advance your game. There's great channel that I know of which talks about how to do that. Here's some relevant videos from the channel: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UY7PE\_qFdY0](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UY7PE_qFdY0) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bf6miBNwCvo](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bf6miBNwCvo) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HpyDMY2JJUk](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HpyDMY2JJUk) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akwtccfsqs0](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akwtccfsqs0)