Yeah I guess the flirting question was kind of rhetorical because I find that in person flirting is so dependent on what you're able to say in the moment. (I don't know I could be wrong, maybe others have had success). Personally I think that I always try to get to know the person before I try to pursue anything, but I've been told that my natural personality is too friendly. I guess that could make another person confused with my intentions or lose potential interest if I don't make a move indicating that I could be interested in something more. But overall I've been too hesitant/scared to try anything seriously. I don't know how to overcome the fear. I have tired apps but I haven't had much success.