I guess it comes down to our individual outlook on life. It sounds like you're pretty at peace with your stutter, and I'm not in that place right now. I kinda needed to vent after a pretty rough day at work with a lot of shitty customers being dicks. Also, I totally agree about modifying my stance on this in different situations. Of course in a situation where I need to defer to someone, like in a job interview, I am more accommodating.