I believe acceptance comes with confidence of yourself. You're going to stutter, so make people focus on other (POSITIVE) aspects of yourself. Work out, go to college, join the military, etc etc. If you can't or don't want to do anything like that, even false motivation and false confidence helps. Tell yourself 'I'm the baddest mother... here' when you're nervous about an interview. There's 100000 ways to build your confidence, and once you do that, acceptance comes walking hand in hand.