Wow, what an amazing story! Your accomplishments are so inspirational. I'm (40f) also in software dev and I just quit my Lead Dev job to focus on being an author and professional speaker! Sounds like we have a lot in common there. I'm always looking for mentors to help me with my career if you're available! For anyone else reading this, I also mentor people and some are in this sub. I'm happy to take on other mentees if you need me!