Well I am sorry that I offended you. I'm glad that you got what I was trying to say which means I was successful in my communication. I am sorry I used cancer. Please feel free to substitute it with literally any other medical condition. And not everyone has the ability to reduce their stutter at will so there's that. I think you are right in a way, there are some aspects of suffering that only someone who has been through it can help with. However, to state that only someone who has suffered the way you have can help is incorrect. There would be literally no reason to help anyone ever. I sincerely am not trying to hurt you, you are 15 and a sentient being. But please understand that I am not a mind reader, I can only be responsible for what I say, not for what you may want to hear.