Who is trying to accommodate us? How is something like another degree not a big deal economically/time wise? I get where you are coming from, I just don’t get how these things aren’t a big deal. I suppose they wouldn’t be if you already had the stability, support, and money. I don’t blame people for being people. All the traits stuttering exhibits are negative, and this is because for fluent speakers they really are negative. I do blame them for their lack of understanding and the judgement after they have been informed.